Relationship Assistant
Good intentions aren't enough.
Follow-through is.
You have good intentions. But life gets in the way, you forget the things that matter, and the relationship suffers, not because you don't care, but because you didn't have a system.
Relationship Pilot is coming soon. New subscriptions are not open yet.
You meant to plan something. But life happened.
You knew her birthday was coming. You had a vague plan for your anniversary. You meant to do something thoughtful last month. But you were busy. You forgot. You scrambled last-minute.
The relationship doesn't suffer because you don't care. It suffers because you don't have a system that turns good intentions into reliable follow-through.
What it does
A system that turns intentions into actions
The Relationship Assistant handles the remembering, the planning, and the prompting, so you can focus on showing up.
Partner Profile
Store your partner's name, birthday, preferences, favourite things, and important people. Everything in one place.
In-app reminders
Get an in-app reminder before important dates and saved plans, with enough time to follow through.
Important Dates
Partner's birthday, anniversary, and other dates you save. Tracked in Calendar, due in the app.
In practice
What it looks like when it's working
Sarah's birthday is approaching
Her birthday is coming up. Check Calendar for the date and any saved plan so you can follow through in time.
Your anniversary is in 31 days
Last year you went to La Serra. Want to plan something different this year? Here are some ideas based on what you both enjoy.
Her mum's birthday
You saved a note that she likes gardening. Use that when you decide what to do. This is a date reminder, not a shopping list.
Dinner plan reminder
You saved a date plan. When the reminder time is due, it shows in the app so you can follow through.
Start small. Benefit immediately. Grow over time.
Add the basics
Start with a name and one important date. That's enough to get your first reminder. No big setup required.
Get reminders before they matter
Before the birthday. Before the anniversary. With enough time to actually do something thoughtful, not scramble.
Add more as you go
Preferences, important people, and more dates. The more you add, the more useful Chat and Calendar can be.
Who this is especially good for
Busy people who care about their relationship but struggle to stay on top of the details
Men who've been told they're not thoughtful enough and want to change that without it feeling like a chore
Partners who want to be consistent: not just great on special occasions, but reliable all year
Anyone who feels overwhelmed by the mental load of tracking dates, preferences, and expectations
Your partner's data stays private. Always.
Your partner's information is stored for your account so you can be more thoughtful. This is not a tracking or monitoring tool. Self-service deletion is not in Settings yet; contact support to request a copy or deletion.
Questions about the Assistant
I can just use a calendar for this.
A calendar lists dates. Relationship Pilot also stores partner context and shows in-app reminders when an important date or saved plan is due.
Is this creepy?
No. It's what a thoughtful partner already does in their head, just organised and reliable. Your partner would be delighted to know you care enough to use it.
How much data do I have to enter to get value?
Start with a name and a birthday. That's enough for your first reminder. Add more when you think of it. The more it knows, the more it does for you.
Is my partner's data safe?
Partner details are stored for your account only. Self-service deletion is not in Settings yet; contact support to request a copy or deletion.
Coming soon, with Relationship Pilot
Relationship Pilot is coming soon
Personalised AI relationship guidance that remembers the important context of your relationship. New subscriptions are not open yet. The Blueprint is available now.